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Friday, November 16, 2018

Friday Round Up 10/26/18 - Ireland

Touring Trinity College's campus
Oh my what a fun 8 days we had in Ireland! We spent time with my 4th cousins & Lulu's 5th cousins, drove to the Atlantic coast & on some of the Ring of Kerry, visited my ancestral hometown in County Carlow, and also got a stomach bug - which was the only unfun part of our vacation! Despite the fact that Ireland is approximately the same size as the state of Indiana.......we feel like we barely scratched the surface in our week there. We saw a lot of the country - but we both feel like there is so much more to see. Obviously, it is always such a treat to spend time with our extended family - the people we visit are descendants of my great great grandfather's brother. 
Got to pick up sweet Luci from school! We brought the whole crew ;)
Why wouldn't all 3 girls be in Lulu's pack n play?!?

My great great grandfather emigrated from Ireland & settled in, wait for it, Evanston. No joke. Fresh off the boat - Evanston was his choice of a home. So I have that in common with him! He shares his first name with my Dad & my great grandfather! George A. Kearney, born 1829, died 1896. His son, also George A. Kearney (my great grandfather born 1868, died 1938) happened to install the original plumbing in the home Chris & I live in. His signature was on the original building permit as the plumbing and sewer contractor when our house was new construction in the early 1900s! Makes the world feel delightfully small.
                                                                    
Loved taking the fast train into Dublin's city center with our fam
Solid self timer effort here!!

We had a great time kicking off our trip in Dublin – my 4th cousin (who I simply call my cousin) Orla & her husband Richard hosted us in their beautiful, recently renovated home. It was such a luxury to arrive to a comfortable home full of our family rather than a hotel or an Airbnb. Orla & Richard’s daughters (Luci, 5 & Grace, 3) were thrilled to have their American cousin visiting and staying with them. We relished the chance to see their neighborhood & participate in their daily lives. We only got touristy for half a day & enjoyed time in downtown Dublin. Orla’s little sister Geraldine was kind enough to fly to Dublin with her younger son Theo in order to spend the weekend with us! We are so lucky to have such thoughtful family. Ger was our tour guide around Trinity’s campus since she’s an alum
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Family walk down Grafton St.


View from the front of our Kenmare Airbnb!

From Dublin we traveled southwest to Kenmare, which is on the Ring of Kerry. We arrived at night, it was already dark, so we didn’t do anything except order a pizza, eat dinner & go to bed.  Lulu had fallen asleep in the car.......so we tried to put her straight down at the house. Fail. So we fed her some Apache (such a ridiculous pizza box/chain name) pizza and she went down the 2nd try!

Tired & mostly naked.....eating subpar pizza #vacation
 Unfortunately, Chris woke up the next day, which just happened to be our 8th wedding anniversary feeling just awful. He had some sort of stomach bug and couldn’t really get out of bed. Lulu & I walked the 15 minutes into town from our Airbnb and had breakfast at the delightful bakery/restaurant called Jam. So many delicious things and felt almost unreasonably affordable! On to the pharmacy to get some stomach meds for Chris & then the grocery store to get crackers & ginger ale Chris felt a bit better after Lulu’s nap so joined us on another walk into town & sat with us for lunch. 
Cromwell's bridge - pre puke

Lulu wanted to dip her toes in the water!

Unfortunately, he didn’t feel well on the walk back to our Airbnb & puked his guts out by historic Cromwell’s Bridge. It was a very scenic area – Chris said it was the prettiest place he’d ever puked! Needless to say, Chris went back to bed as soon as we got back to our Airbnb, which I should probably mention was ridiculously large. 4 bedrooms & a whopping 5 bathrooms! Silly big, honestly. But -it had a washer & a dryer – which was a godsend given what the next 12 hours held. Lulu & I went for a walk to try to get to the coast- we could see the water from the house – but it was down a hill & wasn’t clear if we could walk to it. Comically when I called our host to ask, he said that the 6 cows they keep as pets would bother us so much that he didn’t recommend us walking through his farmland! But his brother’s estate was right up the road & we could let ourselves through his gate in order to walk to the water. 





Sometimes our trip felt straight out of an Irish cliché – this was one of those times! We had a beautiful walk & met a nice woman on our walk back who was an American expat living full time in Kenmare – right near our Airbnb. Unfortunately (for the 3rd time), I woke up in the middle of the night to puke. And then again, an hour later. I took these opportunities to do laundry – because all of the sudden………everything felt contaminated
Did my absolute best to rally for some photos after my car nap

We checked out the next morning & I felt like garbage. Orla & Ger both recommended a restaurant called Avoca Café on the drive from Kenmare to Dingle through Moll’s Gap. I slept in the rental car in the (very scenic) parking lot. Just needed more & more sleep! Oh well. Stomach bugs happen & at least Lulu did not get it. AND at least our cousins didn’t get it either! Those were my 2 biggest worries when Chris started to feel sick. Alls well that ends well, right?!?
My loves

Lulu found the gravel far more engaging than the beautiful view of the valley.

Once I felt better we all really enjoyed Dingle. It was the start of their slow/off season so the one bummer was a bunch of stuff was closed. Other than that though – there were delicious cafes & bakeries, fun pubs, and solid takeaway cheeseburger places – which is what Chris & I both wanted once our stomachs were back to some semblance of normal. 

Murphy’s Ice Cream came highly recommended – it was out of this world delectable. I could’ve eaten far more of it than I did!! I (stupidly) opted to share mine with Lulu rather than pay for her to have her own that would’ve cost 4.50 euro. Bad choice! It was creamy in a way I typically associate only with high end butter – interesting flavors, cute shop to eat it in. All in all a wonderful ice cream experience!! 
Lulu made herself right at home at the pub ;) 
The hardware store aspect was just hilarious. 



There was some kind of rat bait or poison or trap on the bar for sale right in front of my stool. Thankfully I didn't have any need for the product- but what a comfort to know I could get that & a pint!

We also shared a Guinness  in Foxy John’s pub. We felt like we couldn’t just hang out in this place that we’d read about & heard about – seemed like we needed to buy a beer. But neither of us really had the taste for beer of any kind post stomach bug & so we just went with something we would never otherwise choose 😊Foxy John’s is well known because its not just a pub – it is also a hardware store & a bicycle repair shop! There was live traditional music being played, Lulu did some dancing, it was an experience quite difficult to replicate anywhere else I’d imagine!





The highlight of our time spent traveling just the 3 of us were the hikes we did on the Atlantic coast. Holy cow – it was breathtakingly beautiful I could not get over how wild & raw & stunning the coastline was. 
Lulu's first dip in the Atlantic Ocean was a bit of a mistake...big wave flooded her shoes!

Every place we stopped seemed more beautiful than the last.

Chris blending in with his surroundings


It reminded me both of Bermuda & the California coast, water so blue that it looked fake – cliffs & steep drop offs- rocky, craggy outcroppings getting pummeled by waves. But also beautiful white sand beaches! Sheep farms everywhere. Sheep everywhere. Felt like it was straight out of a storybook.
These two :)

Step ladders are provided on the hiking paths so you can avoid the electric fences for the sheep!


The Bug was not ready to leave. Can you blame her?
A post about this trip simply would not be complete without mentioning the fact that we managed to let Lulu get her index finger bitten by a donkey at an animal farm/petting zoo type place. They provide food that you can feed the sheep, goats, donkeys, & alpaca - great idea in theory - makes the animals want to come see you. 




In practice though, when you let your 18 month old hold the food, she clenches it in her tiny little baby fist & won't open her fingers to allow the animal to have access! The donkey took matters into its own teeth. Her poor finger looked like a sausage afterward - but thankfully her skin wasn't broken (& neither was her bone!) Parenting at its finest!

 Lulu has been showing us her "nice flat hand" (we've been coaching her ever since on how to safely feed an animal) every time she wants to talk about the incident with the donkey. This happens at least once per day......we've been home from our trip for a couple weeks now! The animal farm was built into a hillside & had stunning views of the ocean.


 It also was home to some famine cottages - what a dark time in Ireland's history the famine was. Sometimes learning of other country's hard times makes me feel less bad about the ways that the US has screwed up historically. Its a good reminder that we are not the only country with gigantic mistakes and awful treatment of people in our past. There were horrifyingly scary mannequins all throughout the cottages - so I didn't take too many photos - they were majorly freaking me out.


We headed to my ancestral hometown of Bagenalstown, in County Carlow from Dingle. We stopped in Adare for an hour or two to stretch our legs, get a bite to eat & break up the 4 hour drive for the Lulu bean. We had brunch at the ridiculously delectable restaurant oddly (in my opinion) named The Good Room. I only wished I had an excuse to buy one of everything from the bakery they had there!
We didn't spend much time here- but the town of Adare was beautiful
Heading to the Tourist Office. Kidding. 

Visiting Aunt Teresa & Uncle Louie was another real treat. It didn’t feel like 20+ years had gone by since I’d last seen them! They opened their home to us & welcomed us warmly. I think we spent approximately 30 waking minutes away from the kitchen table! 
High fives

Louie's sister Patricia (our family historian/genealogist) - came to visit both days

Thank you for stopping by Brian!

We spent our time there simply relaxing, drinking tea (& eating sweets) & catching up. Teresa had a tin of all of the Christmas cards our family has sent to her over the past 25 or so years. It was delightful & hilarious to go through them & relive our awkward phases! Our cousin Brian stopped by his parents' house Friday night on his way home from work - so kind of him - given he'd been away from home 2 nights & had his wife & 3 kiddos waiting for him to return. Orla, Richard & the girls drove down to Louie & Teresa's house Friday evening too!! Lulu was so happy to see her cousins again before we needed to head for home.

So many helpers to feed Maude, the cat!

Homemade cupcakes shared amongst cousins!

As much of the crew as we could shove into our self timer photo

Saturday brought us back to Dublin - the trip was winding down - but not our family tour! We had one more cousin to see :) Enda & his wife Jo invited us to their beautiful home for an afternoon visit. Unfortunately Jo wasn't feeling well, so we missed out on giving her hugs & catching up. Enda was a great host & Jo had baked an amazing cake that we enjoyed with coffee while we caught up. Lulu loved running around in the back garden....until it started to hail! It went from sunny blue skies to hailing sort of hard in only a few minutes time. Super strange.

Despite a lot of puking – Chris & I are ready to go back to Ireland already! What a beautiful & friendly country. So many places we didn’t have a chance to explore - & so much more hiking to do!!

Saturday, May 12, 2018

Friday Round Up 5/11/18 - Lulu's 1st Hospital Stay

Oh man. What a week. We had Lulu's first hospital stay Wednesday night. 

Our poor bug woke up Monday with a fever, we went to the doctor, she had her first ear infection. She started taken antibiotics, but the fever lingered. I got up to check on her at 1 in the morning Wednesday and her fever had spiked to 105.1, which caused me to get Chris & go to the ER. Not before we changed into regular pants. And then Lulu threw up on both of us. And we changed into different regular pants. Then we went to the ER. These are moments we feel lucky to live a stone's throw from a hospital. Long story short the bug has parainfluenza, a viral infection related to the seasonal flu in name only. She got admitted so the doctors could ensure she would start drinking & eating normally, the fear was she would become dehydrated.

 Her IV fluids really perked her up. Getting the IV set in her arm did not perk anyone up. Man, the hospital is the pits. There were way to many procedures that involved staff laying on her to hold her down, or me holding her still, or both to get the job done. It is so hard to know if Lulu gets it when we tell her "its going to hurt now, but help you feel better soon" I am quite sure that a little human of her age has no concept of time. Ugh. 

90% of the hospital staff were warm, helpful, capable, supportive people. I am eternally grateful for them. I honestly can't adequately express my thanks to family & friends near & far who supported us while we took care of Lulu.

Special shouts outs to:
My parents for coming to visit us in the ER & again once we were admitted. Going to our house & doing our laundry. Noticing I'd left a sink full of dishes & washing them for me. My mom brought me a delightful oat milk latte from Backlot on Thursday morning & it was just about the best thing I could've imagined in that moment.

Laura for taking wonderful care of Owenn, bringing us an easy to make meal for when we got home, a cute balloon & flower, plus coffee for me. I made the food for dinner Thursday & we all loved it. Plus Lulu & Chris ate another meal out of it. I haven't really cooked anything yet.....and its Saturday! Feeling lucky indeed. The wine. I forgot about the wine. Laura dropped off a bottle of wine with the food. It hit the spot so hard Thursday night once the Bug was asleep & the dust had settled. Yes. Wine. Good idea Laura!


Cody for sending me (& Lulu whose appetite had returned) a delicious chicken burrito from Tomate Fresh Kitchen since I had breakfast at 7am and didn't think about lunch until we were in Lulu's room on the pediatric floor at 230. She was keeping tabs on us from sunny San Diego.
The chicken burrito was delicious. Just ask Lulu!

This is after 2 rounds of IV fluids, she looks puffy & vaguely drunk not sure if the fluids made her puffy & the lack of sleep made her look over served.....but it is funny looking back at these photos.


Margie for sending Lulu a balloon & her dancer girl elephant toy while we were in the hospital. The gifts were a welcome distraction for the Bug. I was amused by the fact that the woman came in and said "Laurie?" and we said, no, you must have the wrong room, To which she replied (as cheerfully as the first time) "Laurie Kramer?!?" She was a cute older lady who then laughed at herself saying she must've written the name down wrong. She was just so perky & persistent. My sister was on vacation and spent a lot of her pool time making sure we didn't need more food & ensuring all of my family had the most up to date info that I'd sent her.
Lulu playing with her elephant dancer girl & balloon

Jay, who upon hearing we were in the ER, dropped off lunch foods for us so we had food when we got home, Unfortunately we didn't get home Wednesday - so another shout out to Laura for putting that food in the fridge for us. I ate all of it between Thursday & Friday this week. My general rule of thumb is to bring/make/send/buy food when people are in crisis because I figure "you gotta eat". I didn't realize until this week how incredibly helpful it is when others do the same. I was bone tired when we got discharged midmorning Thursday & to not need to think about food was amazingly helpful. I would've been eating Kind bars for the remainder of the week if Laura & Jay hadn't thought about us!

Tara (who is going to have baby number 4 literally any day and has so much on her plate I can't imagine adding one more thing to it) brought over delectable treats from Great Harvest Bread Company, adorable cards from the kids, and such a cute narwhal toy that Lulu's cousin Anne picked out for her. How she found the time to take care of us when her plate is overloaded is a mystery to me. The suggestion of taking a shower with Lulu to wash off the hospital grime was a most excellent one and meant we were both clean before I put Lulu down for a nap after we were discharged. A shower is so restorative. I felt so much better after it.
"Dear Lulu I hope you feel better. I really miss you. From: Liam"

"I am Kane. I'm wishing Lulu feels better. I am Lulu. I am almost feeling better" (Kaner went artsy on us)

Anne's card requires no translation :)

Stacey who volunteered to drive up from the city to take care of us & Owenn (despite her plate also being on epic overload mode at the moment too) Wednesday night. Then handling our lovely neighbor kiddos who wanted to come over & see Owenn (they love Owenn & play really well with him - I feel lucky for this, but having Stacey there was an added curiosity they simply could not resist!) Raiding the fridge, bringing food to us, pajamas, phone chargers. All the things. Then we were literally falling asleep while she visited with us. In our defense, we had been awake for about 20 hours at that point, but still!!

The other friends who stayed in close text touch to keep tabs on Lulu's progress and our sanity. Thank you a million for finding your own ways to take care of us. Hopefully by the time the weekend is out Lulu's fever will be gone for good & we can finish out her prescription for disgusting bubble gum amoxicillin and put this week behind us. Thankfully Lulu seems to feel much better now that we are home. Fresh air, sunshine, dog walks and some huge sleeps have all contributed to her seeming more like herself. Oh what a week it has been. Thank you again everyone for helping us through a challenging parenting first.

If this week has taught me anything it is a newfound respect for families who include kiddos with chronic illnesses. What a challenge to be faced with hospital visits & stays as a regular part of your life. I can now imagine what that would be like & it would be ridiculously difficult in so many ways. 

We are now officially 24 hours fever free with our biggest big Bug. We are so thankful that the virus seems to have finally run its course & has left the building.

Happy Weekend everyone, it is much happier for us now that Lulu is on the mend.